"Your pain is real," she said, looking me straight in the eye. "Your marriage matters. And there's a solution."
She explained something no other doctor had mentioned. How positioning pressure creates discomfort that has nothing to do with desire or technique.
"It's physics," she said. "And physics can be fixed."
Then she mentioned something called the Moodie pillow. "It's designed specifically for this problem. The 27-degree angle eliminates pressure points completely."
For the first time in years, someone treated my pain as a problem worth solving.